Life is always in your favor. Always.

The universe is always conspiring in your favor.

Lots of times, our life situations are uplifting. We accomplish a career goal, enjoy a vacation to a new location, receive a remission diagnosis.

Other times, our life situations feel like they need solutions. It feels like we are under water, lost in thick fog, held fast in tar pits.

Wrong turns in need of course correction.

And yet…

What if the course I think needs to be corrected is actually right on track?

What if what I think is wrong is exactly what is needed for my spiritual growth? Read More

Find solutions instead of solving problems. Yes, they are two different things.


Fragment of summer flowering cactus in flower pot.

Part of evolving as a human being involves…dealing with situations.

Maybe your parents have moved into your basement. Perhaps you didn’t get that raise. Could be your car mysteriously won’t start.

What if your adult child is suicidal? Your spouse has been diagnosed with a debilitating disease? Your beloved O.L.D. dog stops eating?

Do you have a problem to solve? Or are you looking for a solution?

I know, I know. At that point, who really gives a crap which it is.

Yet I continue to find that in part, Read More

When “ease and joy” feels far away

Stay afraid, but do it anyway.

Do it anyway.

See it anyway.

Trust it anyway.

It is there for you any way.

Mother Theresa quote

When do you find you need extra faith? Are they predictable situations, or are you blindsided? Or both?


Make good choices



Yep, that’s a dinosaur meat cutting chart in there. Sometimes in the moment what we think is prime is really our old, extinct patterns. In that case, consider choosing again.

How do you know if you are making good choices? By how you feel.

In continuing our celebration of attending to the best parts of what is happening, here’s a revisit of a prime choice that made the cut. Enjoy!

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Choose the choice parts

unicorn choice cuts

Just for today, give the best parts of what is happening significantly more of your attention.

No matter what is happening.

No matter what others around you are giving their attention to.

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