If you intend to be of assistance, your eye is not upon the trouble but upon the assistance, and that is quite different. When you are looking for a solution, you are feeling positive emotion — but when you are looking at a problem, you are feeling negative emotion. Excerpted from The Law of Attraction: […]
Which help is assisting & supporting, and which help is rescuing & enabling? How long do I let someone experience productive struggle, before stepping in? If it also makes my life better when theirs is smooth, can I simply allow and be with their bumpy upset and discord — without taking it on, myself?