It occurs to me that “busted” is a different word for awareness. As in, I’ve been kind of fooling myself and now I can actually see that. I can’t concentrate on my work projects because the TV is too loud in our shared space, again? I’ve been hiding behind my accommodating nature instead of speaking […]

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What are you focusing on?

If you intend to be of assistance, your eye is not upon the trouble but upon the assistance, and that is quite different. When you are looking for a solution, you are feeling positive emotion — but when you are looking at a problem, you are feeling negative emotion. Excerpted from The Law of Attraction: […]

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When helping doesn’t actually look like helping…

Which help is assisting & supporting, and which help is rescuing & enabling? How long do I let someone experience productive struggle, before stepping in? If it also makes my life better when theirs is smooth, can I simply allow and be with their bumpy upset and discord — without taking it on, myself?

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