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Change your lens.

Self-help, mental wellness, and personal growth is awesome. I highly recommend it. And if you’re here, you’re likely already doing this. However, there is a sneaky part of self-improvement that many of us start from which is short-sighted. We view ourselves through the lens of seeing that something is wrong, and we’re trying to fix […]

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Find solutions instead of solving problems. Yes, they are two different things.

  Part of evolving as a human being involves…dealing with situations. Maybe your parents have moved into your basement. Perhaps you didn’t get that raise. Could be your car mysteriously won’t start. What if your adult child is suicidal? Your spouse has been diagnosed with a debilitating disease? Your beloved O.L.D. dog stops eating? Do […]

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When “ease and joy” feels far away

Do it anyway. See it anyway. Trust it anyway. It is there for you any way. When do you find you need extra faith? Are they predictable situations, or are you blindsided? Or both?  

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Make good choices

    Yep, that’s a dinosaur meat cutting chart in there. Sometimes in the moment what we think is prime is really our old, extinct patterns. In that case, consider choosing again. How do you know if you are making good choices? By how you feel. In continuing our celebration of attending to the best […]

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Choose the choice parts

Just for today, give the best parts of what is happening significantly more of your attention. No matter what is happening. No matter what others around you are giving their attention to.

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