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We cannot focus upon the weaknesses of one another and evoke strengths. You cannot focus upon the things that you think they are doing wrong, and evoke things that will make you feel better. You’ve got to beat the drum that makes you feel good when you beat it. And when you do, you’ll be […]

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What do you mean, I don’t actually have to put up with this…?

I had a Holy Wow moment the other day that basically took me out at the knees. The kind of awareness that feels like your actual brain inside your physical skull is quite literally being turned upside down. I realized that a quality I possess, and have always considered it a strength, is actually ruining […]

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Oh, holy snap!

I’ve been judging the judger. I’ve been complaining about the complainer. And I’ve been crabby about the crabby. But I’ve also appreciated the appreciative. And I’ve been understanding of the understanding. I’ve also been tolerant of the tolerant. Here I thought I was soooooo awake. When what I’ve simply been is a mirror. Unconsciously reflecting […]

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Even in our scary differences we are still alike

What’s the difference, for the observer, between one person moving through their life by seemingly needing everything to be planned out and in its proper slot, and another person seemingly taking things as they come and just seeing what happens? Being privy to their thought process. Both types, as we watch them, are relaxed and […]

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Overcome, or surrender? Or is it both?

In an effort to be more at peace (think about that one!), I have been considering my language. The words I use. For both my spoken conversation and my mental chatter. For example, I like to think I’m pretty good at allowing others to have their own process, rather than expecting us both to arrive on […]

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