The Sacred Grace of Shutting Up
Posted on August 7, 2012 3 Comments
Recently I was in the position to righteously and rightfully say “I told you so!”–and didn’t.
Don’t get me wrong, I was all over spewing the words. My mouth opened up wide with the retort right on my lips for the group to hear–and I swear an angel snapped it shut for me. That same angel then transformed my growing smile of giddiness from being publicly right, into instead beaming support for my husband (my I-told-you-so target) as he had his Aha moment. It was as if I were standing next to myself watching this happen.
It’s not about the manifestaion, in this case weed killer and mulch. It’s also really not about being right, or being recognized as such. This is about shared emotional space with my loved one, and it was my own Aha moment.
Often I desire to be on the same wavelength with another, very much so with my husband. This includes a verbal or even situational plane, and now I see an energetic one. Yes, conversation and words bring union. So does participating in a common activity or position. However, silently standing in grace and seeing it energetically received, acknowledged, and returned elevates the shared space to sacredness. I credit my husband with his participation in this energetic exchange. Whether he is conscious of it or not, his soul is.
Many times we silently send it out. The gift is when we experience the exchange. That is indeed sacred grace.
Keep Your Curiosity Alive
Posted on August 6, 2012 Leave a Comment
If curiosity killed the cat, it’s only because that kitty wanted to know what was on the other side! Our curiosity keeps us alive, vibrant, excited, and engaged in life. In the moment, it makes you smile more and feel ten pounds lighter.
I love that the name of the NASA Mars rover is Curiosity. Yes, I set the alarm and got up at o’dark thirty to watch the broadcast. Was I disappointed? No–I would have been disappointed if I had not acted on my interest, even if it perhaps seemed small at the time.
Mars is pretty big stuff. So is what I learned this weekend right here on Earth. I’ve spent my entire dog-loving life assuming that they drink water a certain way, and my mind was blown when I learned it’s actually the complete opposite of what I believed. (How in the world does their tongue flip backwards?!?)
Now, I know it’s less about the dog drinking water and more about my previously held beliefs being shaken. It’s along the lines of mentally switching from a flat Earth to a round one. But it’s curiosity that makes it so fun! Approaching things from that space, rather than a space of needing to be correct, cultivates awe and wonder.
Honor your curiosity, and have an awesome and wonderful day! See, you’re smiling already. And your jeans fit better.
Claim Your Passion
Posted on July 31, 2012 2 Comments
Visiting with a lovely mother of five adult children, she described her painting hobby. “I do art,” she declared.
That was last year. I was lucky enough to catch up with her this summer, and she spoke again of her passion. “I am an artist,” she said.
This beautiful woman described how much she anticipates going into her space every day and picking up her brushes. She is astounded, never dreaming she would have ever been able to give so much life to her passion. This woman positively beams with appreciation and gratitude, and is a tremendous joy to be around. Her soul shines.
She recognizes her transition from “I do art” to “I am an artist.” She knows that we do not need to earn our passions in order to call ourselves by them. Each of us already is that which we aspire to be–all we have to do is allow.
What is your secret passion or interest? Allow yourself to have it out loud! Someday is today, it says so on the calendar. (Go look!) It is already owned by you–now claim it. Start by saying “I am…” Let your soul shine.
The Hero’s Journey
Posted on July 30, 2012 Leave a Comment
In diverse world mythology there is a shared fundamental story pattern that Joseph Campbell named the Hero’s Journey. Although each hero is unique, there is a template to the journey. This likely sounds familiar to you, and may even resonate in your own life. I certainly hope so, as each one of us is the hero in our own life story! We are each our own unique manifestation of a shared soul journey, and there is power in embracing this.
Recognizing not only that we are on this patterned plot, but naming where we are along the way, transforms our lives. Yes, it is our big life overview, but it is also our daily moments. We are able to be more objective, and see our lives from a soul perspective. It helps uplift us–our own selves, as well as interactions with others, to vibrate at a higher frequency.
So where are you today? I encourage you to look at your current situation through the lens of the hero that you indeed are. You are unique. You are special. You are important. You are needed. Go ahead, it’s welcoming you:
- Hear your call to adventure
- Cross the threshold
- Face your tests and ordeals
- Gain your reward
- Be transformed
- Return home with a gift
What is in your life that you can view from your hero’s perspective, what adventure do you hear? Is there a vacation you would like to plan? Have you always wanted to write? Do you wish you could speak up about something with your friend? Cross the threshold with that first baby step. Do Not Worry. The rest will unfold, and it will do so for your good. Enjoy the journey! You are recognized and encouraged along the way.
Coffee with Wendy
Posted on July 24, 2012 3 Comments
Everyone needs a go-to friend, someone you call for the really big stuff. Okay, for the little stuff too. When I find myself there, I pour a cup of coffee and call Wendy. She knows that what I am working through really isn’t about the situation, it is about the energetic patterns behind it. She helps me elevate, and I am better able to detach and see how the situation just might be a cosmic step in my journey. We can spend the occasional couple hours, and a full pot of coffee apiece, pacing around our own homes and doing major soul growth (higher grounds?? ha ha). Oh, and we do understand when we fall quite short of it–that’s part of humanity, too. You should also know we laugh–a lot. I mean really, the cosmos has a marvelous sense of humor!
My goal here is to share that experience, and expand it. There are many of us out there who strive for vibrating at a higher frequency, and we can contribute to each other. Hopefully this blog will help others, and I know that others will help this blog.
So pour yourself a cup of chosen beverage, and let’s visit. Not everyone has Wendy, but together we have each other. And ya know, maybe here everyone can have coffee with Wendy, too.