My spiritual head-butt

Letting go of struggle, orchestration, and working to create outcomes is not same thing as giving up self-responsibility and expecting the world to take care of me. I know this. And yet, I’m still learning this. I had another opportunity to practice very recently, and my whole darn experience was nothing short of amazing.

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Mindfulness at play

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When I was a kid,

I remember my mom

cleaning house furiously

and midway through,

sitting down in the living room

on the cracked

naugahyde couch

with a cup of hot coffee

and a lit cigarette,

falling silent,

staring into

space.

This was my introduction

to meditation.

Geri Wilimek, We Sit

Meditation cushions, classes, and structured events are great. They provide a framework as we turn toward mindfulness. What are some other ways we might also pause with intention?

Go for a walk (without earbuds). Listen to the rain on the roof (with the TV off). Spend some time in a chair (with no screens or books).

Just be, for a moment. Or two. Be not afraid to just be with your own self. And see what arrives — or doesn’t.

Don’t worry, this is not laziness. Pausing is not irresponsibility. No worries that we’ll turn into slackers. But dare I say there might be a lesson in here for me about standing down, about finding balance?

Attention. Intention. Application. Reflection. Introspection. Contemplation. Intervention. Suspension. Perception. Ascension.

Meditation.

Foundation.

Welcome home.

How might a moment of mediation look, today? I will practice being present while brushing my teeth. What will you try?

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This practice agrees with you

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As I practice periodic mindful sessions of being agreeable, I experienced an AHA about myself so huge that I had to sit down. It helped me make sense of and have greater compassion for myself, leveled-up. (Which of course is then also projected toward others.) And it’s regarding wanting to be understood, and people-pleasing.

These two are actually the same thing.

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Practices similar AF*

*Agreeable (being this) and Forgiveness (doing this)

So it occurs to me that the benefits of being agreeable are amazingly similar to the benefits of forgiveness.

Here’s from the previous post, on being agreeable. Now, consider this through the lens of forgiveness:

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