My spiritual head-butt
Posted on September 8, 2021 2 Comments
Letting go of struggle, orchestration, and working to create outcomes is not same thing as giving up self-responsibility and expecting the world to take care of me. I know this. And yet, I’m still learning this. I had another opportunity to practice very recently, and my whole darn experience was nothing short of amazing.
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Posted on September 1, 2021 1 Comment

When I was a kid,
I remember my mom
cleaning house furiously
and midway through,
sitting down in the living room
on the cracked
naugahyde couch
with a cup of hot coffee
and a lit cigarette,
falling silent,
staring into
space.
This was my introduction
to meditation.
Geri Wilimek, We Sit
Meditation cushions, classes, and structured events are great. They provide a framework as we turn toward mindfulness. What are some other ways we might also pause with intention?
Go for a walk (without earbuds). Listen to the rain on the roof (with the TV off). Spend some time in a chair (with no screens or books).
Just be, for a moment. Or two. Be not afraid to just be with your own self. And see what arrives — or doesn’t.
Don’t worry, this is not laziness. Pausing is not irresponsibility. No worries that we’ll turn into slackers. But dare I say there might be a lesson in here for me about standing down, about finding balance?
Attention. Intention. Application. Reflection. Introspection. Contemplation. Intervention. Suspension. Perception. Ascension.
Meditation.
Foundation.
Welcome home.
How might a moment of mediation look, today? I will practice being present while brushing my teeth. What will you try?




This practice agrees with you
Posted on August 25, 2021 Leave a Comment

As I practice periodic mindful sessions of being agreeable, I experienced an AHA about myself so huge that I had to sit down. It helped me make sense of and have greater compassion for myself, leveled-up. (Which of course is then also projected toward others.) And it’s regarding wanting to be understood, and people-pleasing.
These two are actually the same thing.
Read MorePractices similar AF*
Posted on August 11, 2021 Leave a Comment
*Agreeable (being this) and Forgiveness (doing this)
So it occurs to me that the benefits of being agreeable are amazingly similar to the benefits of forgiveness.
Here’s from the previous post, on being agreeable. Now, consider this through the lens of forgiveness:
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