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Benchmarks of leveling up in relationship

Watch the above video till the end. All the way through. Even if you think you know what is coming. Even if you’ve already seen it. (Oh, for crying out loud, it’s only four minutes and ten seconds to the end credits. Consider it easy meditation time, and just enjoy.) QUESTIONS TO PONDER, NOW THAT […]

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For a perspective shift, cue this drama llama.

Sometimes we find ourselves getting all caught up in our drama. And it’s often stupid stuff, too: Can somebody just give a straight answer to our work question? We finally order an item we need to replace, and it’s discontinued. The only day this week we have to mow the lawn turns into a rainstorm. […]

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Do The Next Right Thing

It’s good to see the big picture, to keep our envisioned outcome. And it’s easy to think that our immediate decisions and choices either make or break that outcome. They don’t. For example, maybe you have been stuck in analysis paralysis — where you consider all of your options so intently and you can’t see […]

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Neutral Is Not Negative

You may have gathered this by now, but my natural response to people and situations is one that’s positive. Sometimes, annoyingly so: The water softener finally bit the dust, and we woke up to water spilling all over the floor? Well, gee, isn’t it great that we were home and able to stop it before […]

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Holiday Peace

May we all find –even create– a little bit of peace each day.   Peace while jockeying for a parking space. Peace as we hustle our bustle amid legions of others doing the same. Peace with the children in their unbridled excitement. Peace with unsolidified plans as specific dates draw near. Peace during extra-busy time […]

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