The Holy Instant

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This morning as I sat with my journal, I was planning on working through a gripe. Originally I had intended to process it, to allow it to move through me and out. The point was for me to acknowledge, name, and release the negative. With a focus on getting to the releasing part.

Yet attending to the gripe holds it here. Even in the guise of processing it through and out.

And then a miracle happened. Read More

Supercharge your morning (part 5)

“What is one thing you can do this morning to make all your tomorrows be your best yet?”

Just for this morning

it’s time to get down to it.

Stop putting off what you’ve been off-putting.

Roll your sleeves up

and get stuck in.

Tom Evans, Supercharge Your Morning

I’ve been meaning to do the laundry… For the past five days.

I’ve been meaning to organize the storeroom… For the past five months.

I’ve been meaning to write my book… For the past five years.

Holy wow, time is weird. I didn’t even realize that I was stuck out of it.

Ready or not, it’s time. (Spoiler alert:

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Supercharge your morning (part 4)

“What is one thing you can do this morning to make all your tomorrows be your best yet?”

Just for this morning

make space.

Imagine the time between each tick lengthens.

What will you do with that extra time?

Set to it.

Tom Evans, Supercharge Your Morning

Make space. Ooohhhh, what a gift. Self-care. I love the idea of imagining lengthening the time between seconds, that was new for me.

Other ways I have found to make space include

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What the struggle is really about

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The idea that there’s beauty in the struggle has nothing to do with the struggle at all. It’s to do with how you overcome it.

The Beautiful Badass

We all have challenges, that’s part of our journey here in this thing called Life. Some challenges are clearly visible, others less so.

Yet it’s not about the struggle. It’s about ourselves within that. Read More

Supercharge your morning (part 3)

“What is one thing you can do this morning to make all your tomorrows be your best yet?”

Just for this morning

remember what’s past.

What moments of your life

would you like to live again?

What will you do differently

this time around?

Tom Evans, Supercharge Your Morning

I love this for the words, “(what) would you like to live again?” That is very different than “do-over.”

It’s not only about looking back and seeing what I’d fix. It’s also about reliving what was pleasant. And honoring what was awesome. What other fabulous choices could I make in my mind, for other bouts of pleasant awesomeness?

It’s like going back and re-reading a Choose Your Own Adventure story, and this time playing with different choices. Selecting different moves. And infinite varieties of combinations of choices and moves. The final story is more complete for having fully explored diverse options.

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Try this online Hogwarts Adventure, from Infinite Story‘s online library of choose-your-own-adventure stories.

What is a pleasant memory? What is something awesome that you recall? With great compassion for yourself, what is a memory you might consciously relive differently in order to heal it?